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Dear Sparkler,
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On Tuesday morning, at our Glittersphere Spotlight Live event, Dr Anne-Laure Le Cunff, author of Tiny Experiments and the founder of Ness Labs, said something that stopped me:
"Become a self-anthropologist."
She was talking about how we measure whether something's working. We obsess over metrics - the views, the likes, the revenue, the outcomes. But we forget to ask: how did it actually feel while I was doing it? We don't stop to study how we respond to different tasks or outcomes.
"If you've got 20,000 people reading your newsletter but you dread writing it every week, is that success?"
That's the experimental mindset. Tiny experiments. Paying attention to the internal signals, not just the external ones. Treating your own life like fascinating research rather than a pass/fail test.
The room was full of women scribbling in notebooks, writing down their first tiny experiment.
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One looked up and said:
โ"I've never actually written down what I want before."
That's the magic. That's why I do this.
We danced, connected, laughed and learned - exactly what was needed on a cold January morning.
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โWhich brings me to next Tuesday.
Shoreditch House saw what happened in that room and offered us a bigger space for the Unmissable Supper Club. More seats by the Big Fire. More women around the table.
So, I wasn't about to keep that to myself, and by way of experiments - I wanted to throw open the doors and invites and let serendipity do her work!
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โTUESDAY 20th JANUARY 6:30pm to 9:30pm โ
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Under the eaves, by the fire, great food, lots of conversation, laughter, wisdom, honesty and a fair dose of fuck-its and sequins!
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โMy mission is to help women become UNMISSABLE.
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I want to help people to learn to tell stories that connect and build resonance combined with the know-how of to ensure their story is heard - with the power of AI.
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โUNMISSABLE = RESONANCE x REACH (powered by AI)
So at next week's Supper Club we will getting into action mode - here's what I'll be sharing:
๐ฅ ๐ช๐ต๐ฎ๐'๐ ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐๐ฎ๐น๐น๐ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐ธ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ผ๐ป ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ธ๐ฒ๐ฑ๐๐ป - real intel, actual insights, no fluff.
๐ฅ ๐๐ ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐๐๐ฒ๐น๐น๐ถ๐ป๐ด - I've been borderline obsessed. We're going to get sassy with prompting and have some fun. I'll share what I'm using and how you can get up to speed without losing your voice.
๐ฅ ๐ข๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ป ๐บ๐ถ๐ฐ ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐๐๐ฐ๐ธ-๐๐ ๐๐ถ๐๐๐ - bring yours. Say it out loud. There's something about a room full of women who get it.
It's a masterclass wrapped in a supper club.
The kind of evening that shifts something.
Don't just take my word for it.
The reviews from December's supper gave it 'Five Stars' across the board (I'm not above a humble brag).
But here's what actually matters:
"๐ ๐ง๐ฆ๐ญ๐ต ๐ด๐ฐ ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ช๐ฏ๐ด๐ฑ๐ช๐ณ๐ฆ๐ฅ, ๐ญ๐ช๐ฌ๐ฆ ๐ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ถ๐ญ๐ฅ ๐จ๐ฐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ข๐ฌ๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ญ๐ฅ."
"๐๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ด๐ด ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ท๐ถ๐ญ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ข๐ฃ๐ช๐ญ๐ช๐ต๐บ ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ณ๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฎ ๐ฉ๐ข๐ฑ๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ด๐ฐ ๐ฒ๐ถ๐ช๐ค๐ฌ๐ญ๐บ ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ค๐ข๐ถ๐ด๐ฆ ๐ต๐ณ๐ถ๐ด๐ต ๐ธ๐ข๐ด ๐ข๐ญ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅ๐บ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ฆ."
"๐๐ต ๐ต๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฌ ๐ฎ๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ต ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ฎ๐บ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ๐ต ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ๐ค๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ฎ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฃ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ต ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ช๐ฏ๐ด๐ฑ๐ช๐ณ๐ฆ๐ด ๐ฎ๐ฆ, ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ฏ ๐ฎ๐บ ๐ด๐ฑ๐ข๐ค๐ฆ, ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ฃ๐ฆ ๐ท๐ช๐ด๐ช๐ฃ๐ญ๐ฆ."
"๐๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ง๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฅ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ธ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ข๐ด ๐ฏ๐ช๐ค๐ฆ. ๐๐ถ๐ต ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ฐ๐ฑ๐ญ๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ข๐ฎ๐ข๐ป๐ช๐ฏ๐จ."
That last one might be my favourite.
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Now, if you're thinking, hold on aren't we still wintering, you and I. Still in that liminal space between last year and this one.
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I think that's exactly when we need to gather. By the fire. With good people. Before we launch ourselves into 2026.
Spaces are limited because I want this to be intimate.
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Oh, and I made something for you this week - a video about how to stop being invisible, and why the thing I spent my whole life trying to hide turned out to be my superpower.
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โ๐ช๐ฎ๐๐ฐ๐ต: ๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ฆ๐ง๐ข๐ฃ ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ถ๐ป๐๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ โโ
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The rules are being rewritten.
This time, we hold the pen. ๐ชฉ
See you by the fire?
Nish x
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